For couples who want to keep choosing each other, with God at the center
The Sacred Union Circle
The Invitation
True intimacy and connection with your partner might be one of the greatest experiences we have in this life.
But how do we actually find our way to each other?
How do we move through the patterns that just become the air we breathe…
the stories, the fears, the things we stop questioning?
We don’t know, exactly.
But after years in 1:1 and circle spaces, we’ve seen this:
Sometimes you don’t look the tiger in the eye.
Sometimes you see it in someone else —
and everything shifts
We’re not here as experts in your relationship, and this isn’t about fixing anything.
You come in, you listen, you watch… and at some point you start to see yourself in what’s happening with someone else.
It doesn’t have to be heavy.
Sometimes it actually makes you laugh—and that’s where the shift happens.
It’s a circle.
You drop the story you’ve been holding about your partner and you’re no longer in opposition.
You see differently. You see yourself differently, you see your partner differently.
That is where something opens up - a third way, where you’re on the same team again
We work with polarity here.
Masculine leadership and feminine surrender, which is part of the design and structure of life itself. There is a simplicity in it, like a returning, not a forcing or trying.
When polarity is present, what you will find is that what once felt complicated starts to resolve on its own. The fires go out without efforting…
God is at the center of this space.
Because that’s what brings everything back into right alignment.
No long commitments. No overwhelm. Just two intentional evenings a month — held consistently, so the work has somewhere to land.
How it Works
WE MEET
Twice a month
1st & 3rd Monday of every month
TIME
5 pm PT · 8 pm ET
Live, together
LENGTH
75 minutes
Focused, unhurried
Come to one or both. Each session stands on its own — you'll never feel behind.
Each month has a theme.
There are two tracks when you join The Circle.
The Circle
Join the group calls and grab your popcorn.
The monthly topics will bring up relevant patterns, shadows and longings.
This will spark conversations to have with your partner throughout the month.
The space will offer you a rhythm - let the work move through you with ease.
$147/month per couple
The Circle VIP
Everything in the Circle, plus one private 1:1 couples session with Steve & Jamie each month.
This is an opportunity to talk about what really matters in a structured and safe way for both partners. You get to say “the thing” that often leads to numbness and disconnection.
$327/month per couple
Limited to 4 couples. Call availability on weekday evenings.
You can shift to The Circle (w/out 1:1 calls) at any time.
About the Space
We keep the conversation respectful, honest, and grounded. We reflect on our relationships, but no one is thrown under the bus.
We’re here to see more clearly, and the group helps illuminate what we can’t see. We do our best to leave behind blame and anything that feels disrespectful or dishonoring—to our partner, each other, and God.
This space is a good fit if…
You’ve found yourselves in pattern and then the same patterns again. And you can’t quite see a way out of them.
You’ve tried talking it through, maybe you tried to “work on it" but sometimes that feels like going to war or endless conversations.
Things feel flat, shut down or lifeless, and there is some kind of conflict or distance between the two of you.
Your relationship doesn't feel "bad enough" to go to therapy, nor do you want to go.
You want to be able to say what’s true without it turning into a problem. And you want sweet connection.
You there's more available between you but don't know how to get there.
The Circle VIP is a good fit if…
You want a space where what’s happening between you can be seen clearly and worked with, without taking sides.
You value having someone in the room who can see what you can’t.
You don’t want to keep circling the same pattern for another year.
Upcoming Monthly Conversations
Each month has a direction; we follow whatever emerges.
Month 1 — Men and The Pause
The mess that happens when everything gets filtered through “what would make her happy.” What do I actually want? Where am I being led by God?
Month 2 — You say you want connection…
How to deal with sabotage, discomfort and turning away when what you wanted finally shows up.
Month 3 — What does “submit to your husband” actually mean?
It isn’t obedience so what does it look like in practice? How submission is walking prayer and what’s required of a man to have a surrendered woman.
Month 4 — The fantasy of the safe life
And what it’s costing your marriage. Where comfort replaces aliveness and how safety actually lives in your union.
How to communicate when triggered (especially for men).
Staying open without collapsing or reacting and the having courage to ‘say the thing.’
Month 5 — “I feel _____”
Month 6 — Trusting God vs managing your man
Where control replaces trust and creates noise and disrespect.
How a woman’s gaze co-creates the leader.